3 Reasons People Don’t Buy from You
Recently, I was coaching a client about his sales strategy. He was doing so many things well, yet he wasn’t getting people to actually become clients. He was credible, he had good products, and he was in a business that people needed his services. So what was he missing?
Here’s 3 things he needed to know:
1) DON’T PUSH YOUR PRODUCTS: He was so nervous about making sure he covered all his product line, he came off pushy and salesy. He was not clear about how his products could help his clients. Just because he thought they needed what he was selling, he was not answering the “what’s in it for me” question people have when considering a purchase. They were overwhelmed with the product line, and could not see the forest for the trees, nor differentiate how the products could help them with their issues.
Once I worked with him to outline specific benefits that his customers would receive if they worked with him (less worry about the future, better relationship with their partners, a handle on their finances) then he was able to put into words HOW his products helped his customers, and his sales climbed.
2) KNOW YOUR CLIENTS’ NEEDS: He was not learning what his clients’ problems were, and suggesting a solution to their situation. Again, he was giving them the rundown of his multiple product line but not taking the time to get to know his clients. We created an assessment sheet that asked questions so he could understand his clients’ ultimate goals, along with the barriers or gaps in achieving those goals, which led him to be able to share specifically how he could help them get to where they wanted to be. He became the answer to their prayers!
3) LEAD THE CONVERSATION: He was not in charge of the sales conversation. Yes, he was setting up “coffee dates” as advised by his networking group, but once at that coffee date, he lacked focus and did not take the lead on the conversation. Because he was not in charge or had a plan, the conversation would stray to the person’s family or vacation and insignificant chit-chat. While it is necessary to get to know your clients on a personal basis, you must take control of the sales conversation or you are wasting a huge opportunity. Once we created a system of points that told his clients the “what’s in it for them” highlights, and most importantly, once he mastered “asking for the sale,” he was able to engage the clients in the sales process, and even answer questions that overcame their objections.
With these 3 strategies, don’t be pushy, know your clients’ needs and lead the sales conversation, you’ll find that you connect with your customers in an authentic way that offers them a product or service that can truly make a huge impact in their lives.
I’d love to hear your comments. What do you do to connect with your clients so they understand how what you have to sell can solve their problems?
Tis the season to be lonely?
Many people are delighted and joyful this time of year, but many feel especially lonely.
During a call with a coaching client, she expressed feeling very left out. She had been out at a holiday concert at her local school, and afterwards, noticed people greeting one another. She was not involved in that friendliness, and felt like an outsider. After talking about how sad she felt, we came up with some solutions. Loneliness can happen anytime, but I think that feeling is more common this time of year than we know.
Maybe you have experienced it, I know I can certainly relate. The media portrays these gay holiday family events and happy holiday festivities, yet holidays can be a time of feeling isolated, lonely and depressed. Some can’t wait for them be over and done with, to be done with the expectations of wonder and joy,
Some suggestions to deal with loneliness this time of the year:
1) Don’t isolate yourself. Maybe the big parties are not your agenda, but do make an effort to call a friend for a cup of coffee or suggest seeing a movie together.
2) Be aware of others and try to reach out to those who may be feeling the same loneliness. It’s easy to get locked into our individual pain, but if you look outward, you’ll see you are not alone.
3) Do what my client decided to do: One random act of kindness each day. She vowed to call her husband at work to say "I’m thinking about you", greet the store clerk by her name and give her a compliment, or share a friendly remark with someone else during the day. Wherever you are this holiday season, I wish you joy, health, peace, and happiness, and know you are not alone.



